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Achieving the Life You Want with Whakaora: A Holistic Approach to Well-Being



At Whakaora, we believe that everyone deserves to live a life filled with meaning, joy, and balance. Achieving this kind of life is not about avoiding challenges but about developing the tools and mindset needed to navigate them successfully. Through our holistic approach, which integrates EMDR therapy, positive psychology, and the Te Whare Tapa Whā model, we empower our clients to create the life they truly desire.


As we step into spring, the season of renewal and new beginnings, there’s no better time to start this journey. Spring symbolizes growth, fresh starts, and the blossoming of new possibilities—making it an ideal time to reflect on your life goals and take meaningful steps toward achieving them.


Understanding Our Holistic Approach


Whakaora’s approach to well-being is grounded in the belief that true health encompasses not just the mind, but also the body, spirit, and connection to others. By addressing all these aspects, we help our clients build a strong foundation for lasting well-being.


1. Te Whare Tapa Whā: A Māori Model of Health


Te Whare Tapa Whā, developed by Sir Mason Durie, is a cornerstone of our practice. This Māori model of health views well-being as a four-sided structure, like the walls of a wharenui (meeting house). Each wall represents a different dimension of health:


Taha Tinana (Physical Health): Physical well-being is essential for overall health. At Whakaora, we encourage clients to engage in physical activities, proper nutrition, and self-care practices that support their physical health.

Taha Hinengaro (Mental Health): Mental well-being is about how we think, feel, and behave. Through EMDR therapy and positive psychology, we help clients address past traumas, build resilience, and cultivate a positive mindset.

Taha Wairua (Spiritual Health): Spiritual well-being involves a sense of purpose and connection to something greater than oneself. We support clients in exploring their values, beliefs, and what gives their life meaning, fostering a sense of peace and fulfillment.

Taha Whānau (Family Health): Family and social connections are vital for well-being. We encourage clients to strengthen their relationships with loved ones and build supportive networks that contribute to their overall happiness.



2. EMDR Therapy: Healing from the Past


Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) therapy is a powerful tool for healing from trauma and overcoming the emotional blocks that prevent individuals from achieving the life they want. EMDR works by reprocessing traumatic memories and reducing their emotional impact, allowing clients to move forward without being held back by past experiences.


At Whakaora, we combine EMDR therapy with positive psychology and the principles of Te Whare Tapa Whā to provide comprehensive support. By addressing both the emotional scars of the past and the strengths that can be developed in the present, we help clients build a foundation for a more fulfilling life.


3. Positive Psychology: Building a Bright Future


While EMDR therapy focuses on healing from the past, positive psychology is about creating a positive and thriving future. Positive psychology emphasizes the importance of building on strengths, fostering positive emotions, and finding meaning in life’s experiences.


Through positive psychology exercises, we help clients cultivate resilience, gratitude, and optimism—key components of a fulfilling life. Whether it’s through daily gratitude practices, setting and achieving personal goals, or developing a positive self-image, our clients learn to shift their focus from what’s wrong to what’s right, paving the way for greater happiness and life satisfaction.


Embracing New Beginnings This Spring


Spring is a time of renewal and growth—a season when nature reawakens and life begins anew. It’s the perfect time to reflect on your own life, let go of what no longer serves you, and plant the seeds for new beginnings. At Whakaora, we encourage you to embrace this season of change and use it as an opportunity to start fresh, whether it’s by healing from past traumas, cultivating a positive mindset, or setting new goals for the future.


Just as the earth renews itself in spring, you too can rejuvenate your life. The principles of Te Whare Tapa Whā, combined with EMDR therapy and positive psychology, provide the framework for a fresh start—a way to shed the old and embrace the new, with a focus on holistic well-being.


Achieving the Life You Want


At Whakaora, we understand that achieving the life you want is a deeply personal journey. It involves understanding your unique needs, values, and aspirations, and taking intentional steps to align your life with them. Here’s how our holistic approach can help you along this journey:


Identifying Your Goals: In our sessions, we work with you to identify your personal goals and what you truly want from life. This could be anything from building healthier relationships to finding a sense of purpose in your career or overcoming past traumas that have held you back.

Creating a Balanced Life: Using the Te Whare Tapa Whā model, we help you create a balanced life that supports your physical, mental, spiritual, and social well-being. This holistic approach ensures that all aspects of your life are aligned with your goals and values.

Healing and Growth: Through EMDR therapy, we assist you in healing from past traumas, while positive psychology techniques help you cultivate a mindset that supports growth and positivity. This dual approach ensures that you’re not just surviving but thriving.

Ongoing Support: Achieving the life you want is not a one-time event but an ongoing process. At Whakaora, we provide continuous support, helping you stay on track and adapt to new challenges as they arise.





Spring offers a unique opportunity for new beginnings, and at Whakaora, we’re here to support you in embracing this season of renewal. Our integrated approach, combining EMDR therapy, positive psychology, and the principles of Te Whare Tapa Whā, offers a comprehensive path to well-being. Whether you’re seeking to heal from the past, build a more positive mindset, or create a balanced and fulfilling life, we’re committed to helping you achieve your goals.


If you’re ready to start your journey toward the life you want, reach out to us at Whakaora. We’re here to help you build the life you deserve—one that is balanced, meaningful, and filled with joy.

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